Haiku-A-Day December Challenge #1: "Thanks for Nothing" Inspiration

Have you heard of Jennifer Abrams yet? She's an educational and communications consultant, wise author, and inspiring human. I have had the pleasure and good fortune of learning from her through face-to-face and digital workshops and especially from her books and blog posts. My personal copy of Having Hard Conversations is defaced with all kinds of notes scribbled in the margins and sticky notes flagging sage gems.

On Jennifer's blog, Voice Lessons, I was inspired by her latest post "Thanks for Nothing." I was compelled to reflect on a few of my experiences of rejection and discomfort, later grateful what those lessons taught me.

This December, I challenged myself to write and post a Haiku-A-Day. With apologizes to Jennifer for not writing quite as eloquently as she did, here's a triple Haiku I recently penned:

Thank you rejection

of building coach position - 

pain sought deep knowledge. 

Thanks, mismatched beliefs 

challenged deep conversations -

diffused comfort zone.

Thank you rejection

of fellowship- sticky hurt

fueled writing fury.  

Slice of Life Tuesday: December Haiku-A-Day Challenge

Writing Haiku is among my favorite forms of writing. I like the manageability of creating a piece with only three lines. I like the focus of a small topic or moment. I like tapping the rhythm of syllables against my leg as I pen lines. I like playing with the order of words. Five. Seven. Five.  Haiku shows up all over my writer's notebook, often after I have written about that day's gratitude. 

The past two Decembers I committed to writing a Haiku-a-day and exchanged it with a friend. I wrote about this experience in this post. 

Last night, as I was thinking about my experience of writing Haiku in past Decembers, I wrote this in my writer's notebook:

December chaos

ahead - Haiku slows me. Seek

reflective moments.

In continuation of my Haiku-a-day December challenge, this year I plan to post a Haiku-a-day on my blog. I would love for other bloggers to join me. I would love to be inspired by your daily Haiku! 

The challenge: write one Haiku-a-day in the month of December. Post it on your blog. 

Will you join me in this writing endeavor? 

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Slice of Life Tuesday: Conferring Win

"Reading is oxygen for a student's future success." 

Penny Kittle from Book Love (Heinemann, 2012) 

I was conferring with one of my high school seniors yesterday. Typically I begin with a question like, how's it going or what's worth talking about? or a comment such as, tell me a bit about what you are reading. 

When I sat down to confer with *Alma, I wanted to emphasize that I noticed that she had read several books this year and not because she was abandoning book after book. She consistently seemed engaged in what she was reading! 

"Did I see that you just began your fourth book?" I quietly asked Alma as we sat down.

Alma gave me a huge grin as she shared the titles that she has read since school began, including: Living Dead Girl, The Secret Life of Sonia Rodriguez, and Someone Like You.

"Have you always been an avid reader?" I asked.

"What do you mean? Avid?" Alma asked.

"Avid means you read a lot." I responded.

Alma smiled and added, "Haha. Nope. This is the most that I have ever read! Like in my life. I can't remember the last time I read a book. I used to hate reading. Now I read at home. Instead of binge watching on Netflix or scrolling on my phone. My mom even wanted to know what I was reading."

It was my turn to grin. 

"What do you think made the difference?" I inquired.

"I think that I actually care about what I am reading. I think about what I want to read."

"Are you surprised at this difference?"

"Yeah. I didn't know that I liked to read." 

Until we had this conversation, I had no idea how much she used to hate reading. She marked on an interest survey at the beginning of the year that she believed she was a nonreader, but I didn't know to what extent. I couldn't help thinking that until this year, she had probably given up on herself as a reader. Did she feel that her former teachers gave up on her as a reader? 

Now, in the first semester of her senior year, Alma reads at school and at home for the first time in years. Maybe ever. She even cares about the books she reads.

Win!

Win!

Win! 

This conversation boosted my mood all day. It made me feel like providing the time for independent reading, sharing book talks, spending way too much money on my classroom library, and taking the time to confer has made a difference for students like Alma. 

But, if I am really honest, these amazing conferring conversations don't happen every day. Sometimes conferring is really hard. Sometimes I find that conferring conversations are awkward, and I need to remind myself to listen better to my students. It's November and I still have a handful of students in each class who still have not found the right book yet. These are the students who abandon book after book. These are the students who are still fake reading. These are the students that really stretch me as a teacher. 

Part of my professional learning this year is focused on conferring. I am still learning about how to have better, more productive conversations with my students - especially my students who have not seen the value in reading yet. I am revisiting and studying professional books such as Book Love and Conferring: The Cornerstone of Reader's Workshop. 

I still have a lot to learn. 

*Alma is a pseudonym 

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Slice of Life Tuesday: Why do THEY write?

Last week Saturday was National Day on Writing. Since National Day on Writing didn't fall on a school day, I proudly wore my NCTE shirt the day before and shared with my students about #WhyIWrite. I often write with my students using a document camera, but this time I prepared a triple Haiku to share with them:

Reflect. Question. Learn.

I write to know myself. Brings

calm, wonder, healing. 

Writing reveals my

surprise, gratitude. I play.

I notice. Record.

Daily writing fills 

me - helps make sense of my world

as better human.  

Later I asked students to write about why they write. Below are a few of their responses: 

"I write because it's a form of communicating.
I write so that I can clear out my mind.
I write to become creative.
I write to create music."  

"I write because my teachers make me.
I write sometimes when im really really made and I cant do anything about [it].
I write to communicate."

"I am forced to.
When I send something to my best friend in Florida.
When I m grounded and have nothing to do.
My cousin who lives in Cali."

"I write so that I can get all my feelings out because if I don't I would just feel crazy. Writing helps with pain." 

"I write so I can remember things that are important."

A few of these responses surprised me. I was delighted that I have a handful of students who use writing to create (such as write music). This gives me some new entry points with my students. In addition, although I am not happy that my students are going through tough situations, I am relieved to see that a few are using writing as a healthy way to manage their emotions.  

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Slice of Life Tuesday: Gordon Korman Visit

Last Friday night, as a part of the Fox Valley Book Festival, my two children and I had the privilege to hear children's author Gordon Korman speak. As an avid reader and writer, I always appreciate hearing an author talk about his or her writing process and craft. I was in awe after learning that Gordon has published over eighty books and that he began writing his first book when he was in seventh grade as part of a school project for English class. In fact, Scholastic published his first book when Gordon was only in ninth grade.  

During the Question/Answer Session towards the end of the presentation, a young child asked Gordon, "How do you feel when you are writing your books?" I adored Gordon's response, "Everything. Happy. Frustrating. Satisfaction when you're done."

Perhaps my favorite takeaway from Friday night was when Gordon shared the power of asking the question what if. This is his guiding question that is often at the heart of his writing. For example, Restart, one of his more recent books, is all about the question what if. What makes us the people we are? Is it ever possible to restart? He explained that constantly asking himself this question what if is what helps him play with ideas in his writing. His advice to writers was to consider, "what are the what ifs in your story?" 

As a reminder, during the presentation I wrote the words what if on my hand. 

Those two words have been lingering in my mind all week. 

How can what if guide me as a writer? 

How can what if guide my teaching? 

How can what if guide my learning? 

What if opens up all sorts of exciting possibilities. 

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Slice of Life Tuesday: Awkward Conferring Moments

"I don't read. I don't do reading. I don't do books." 

A fourteen-year-old student, *Ellen, shared these three strong phrases with me today while I was conferring with her. 

I have been observing Ellen's reading behavior during our daily independent reading time for the last few days. She selected a thick book. She's quiet as we read. She turns pages every few minutes. She even uses a book mark. It looks like she is reading and enjoying it. 

Yet in the first few moments of our conversation, she couldn't tell me what her book was about. At all. She couldn't provide me with any predictions or even a superficial connection. She did not have anything to share that she thought was worthy to talk about.

"How did you select this book?" I asked Ellen.
"It looked cool, " Ellen replied.
"Tell me more about what you are thinking. What made it look cool?" I prompted.
"Um. I liked the cover?" She responded.
"Oh, sometimes looking at the cover is a great way to pick out books. I am often attracted to great covers too. What did you like about the cover?"
"I don't know....oh, I liked the lettering," She said. I nodded.
"Did you read the back to see if it looked like a book you might enjoy?"
She shook her head no.
"Did you page through the book?"
Another head nod of no.
"Hmm...Maybe it isn't a good reading fit for you if you cannot think if anything to talk about." I wondered out loud. 
Ellen nodded.  
"Would you want to take a look at a book about design?" I was thinking of introducing her with a design book like Chip Kidd's Go. 
"Nah. I'm good. This book is okay." 
"Maybe I could help you find a book that you like to read. What are you interested in?"
Ellen simply stared at me. 

I let a few moments of uncomfortable silence pass between us. 

"Ellen, can you remember a book that you read in the past that you really liked?" I asked.
"Not really."
"Is there a title you remember reading last year or in seventh grade?" I asked.
"No."
"What about from elementary school?"
"I told you. I don't do books."
I tried to hold my heavy sigh inside. 

Finally, I asked if Ellen if she had ever tried reading a graphic novel. She hadn't. Although not all students like reading graphic novels, I have found that many of my most reluctant readers are willing to read a few pages of a graphic novel. I gave a few book talks of two  graphic novels: Raina Telgemeier's Drama and Terri Libenson's Invisible Emmie. Reluctantly, she said that she would try Drama. 

My conferring session with Ellen ended up lasting nearly ten minutes, almost the entire time that I had to confer with students in class today. By the time I handed her Drama, our reading time was over, and I did not get the chance to confer with anyone else. 

Fellow readers, this was an awkward conferring session.These are the kind of conferring sessions that make me cringe and fill me with anxiety. I want each conferring session to run smoothly and efficiently, but this didn't happen today.

However, I know more about Ellen as a reader than I did yesterday. In addition, I have a better sense of what some next steps may be with Ellen.

Not so long ago (maybe six years ago) I wasn't conferring. I told myself (and colleagues) that I didn't think that older students (middle school and up) really needed it. In reality, I was intimidated. I felt so unprepared as a teacher, and I didn't know how to confer well. However, I have learned that the more I confer with my students, the more comfortable I am with awkward conversations like the one with Ellen today. It makes me strive to become ever better at conferring. 

*A pseudonym 

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Slice of Life Tuesday: Writing Group Wonderings

Recently, a local artist (and former student), asked me to consider submitting a piece of writing for an upcoming art show in support of women's issues. Of course I was honored, thanked her, and I assured her that I would immediately begin working on a piece.

Then I privately panicked.

Me sharing my writing with a larger, public audience? Aye. Just the thought fills me with so much angst. Yes, that's me, the English/Reading teacher who is always encouraging her students to submit writing for publication. 

What a hypocrite. 

Each time I have carved out some time to work on a piece for this show I get stuck. Here are a few questions that have rolled through my brain:

• What is worth writing about? 
• Once I figure out my topic, which details do I include? Which details do I omit? 
• How will I craft my work in such a way that is compelling? 
• What form should I write in? A poem? An essay? 

This weekend I found myself combing through past writer's notebooks. I culled my favorite lines and topics. I made lists. I created Heart Maps. I wrote Haiku. I even turned to works from my favorite writers for inspiration. No luck. 

Finally, I reached out to a far away writerly friend for some advice. She inquired if I belonged to a writing group and shared that she would be lost without her writing group. 

Hmm. A writing group might give me suggestions, help me get unstuck, and at least help me silence some of those self-defeating voices in my mind. If I had a community of writers, I might hold myself more accountable to writing and publishing. A community of writers might provide me with feedback. A community of writers might provide me with more inspiration. A community of writers may be working through some of the same struggles about writing that I am. 

On Sunday night I finally decided on a topic to write about for submission to the local art show - my unhealthy body image and how I fear that I have passed this on to my daughter.

Now that I have determined my topic, I have some serious writing work ahead of me. 

In the meantime, I am wondering about writing groups. To my writing friends, do you belong in a writing group? If so, how often do you meet? For how long? What does it look like? Sound like? Has being in a writing group helped you as a writer? What smart suggestions do you have for me? 

Thank you in advance for any insights! 

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